weddings

So i just got engaged, me and my bf went to Canada and he proposed. I feel like no one wants me to have the wedding I want, my only supporter is my mom everyone else just wants to control my wedding. I know I have to wait awhile before I can have my wedding, but I still want to plan it. Everyone is either barking orders at me or shaking their heads at my decisions. I want my wedding to be purple and black colors because thats me, but mother-in-law wants me to have a traditional wedding and my sister just wants to create my wedding to her liking. I picked out a beautiful purple dress and my mom is the only one that likes it. The stress of trying to please everyone is getting to me and I really want to cry. How am I supposed to make myself happy and have my dream wedding if everyone is barking orders at me....